Depending on personalities, this issue differs from one person's perspective to another. One point of view would never agree on girls asking boys out; while other point of view would not mind at all. Various people would not accept the fact that a specific relationship started on a girl asking a boy out. Inversely, several would consider the fact that the girl is into the boy and can't just be silent!
If a girl was seriously desperate, she can try out many strategies. One for instance is bumping into him in any corner acting that it was by accident. Another technique, but a little more complex, is trying to get him in the same elevator you are using by yourselves. Call and elevator and when it arrives just act shy and embarrassed that you fear the elevators alone. When he notices he won't say no! These tactics in my personal view are way better that embarrassing herself and asking a guy out!
Some would think about the feelings that the girl might have while watching the boy whom she's into dating another girl. Of course it's not easy at all, especially when girls are overwhelmed by jealousy. In order to extinguish her jealousy and her conscience, she would definitely ask whoever she likes out. So, they wouldn’t mint at all if girls ask boys out.
As a conclusion, its really up to the girl to decide wether or not to ask a boy out. If she was strong enough to wait, that would be great. If she honestly couldn’t or would not risk it, she would go for asking the boy out no matter what people thought about the idea. Whatever decision you make should be based on your self experience and based on your way. I don't recommend you to ask people about relationships and personal things, because its completely different from one person to another.
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